You want a satisfying, happy, thriving life - but deep down, you know your relationships need work and that affects how you feel about everything else.
I bet this is what you were told to do when you first found yourself struggling…
Probably somewhere along the way you were told to “focus on the positives!”
Then, when making that checklist of pros and cons didn’t seem to be working, you were told to try a self-help book, subscribe to a few YouTube channels or download an empowerment podcast (maybe you even shared one of these with your partner hoping they’d start making changes too).
When self-help books and videos didn’t seem to be healing you, you started to shut down a little or avoid certain topics.
At least that way you couldn’t be triggered, right?
Or maybe you got really good at numbing out altogether with TV, work, food, etc.
Maybe you’ve even worked with other therapists in the past and, while they were helpful, you still find yourself unable to experience real change and true connection.
You still lack confidence. You’re still lonely.
Perhaps you feel like traditional structures don’t fit you. You feel like society’s view of relationships is narrow-minded but you need guidance on how to explore ideas such as non-monogamy or polyamory in a safe, positive and affirming space.
Maybe you’ve been struggling like this for months…or maybe it’s been going on for years…with all of that pain and frustration buried deep, but here’s the thing:
It’s all still right there. Lurking beneath the surface and holding you back.
Instead of avoiding, what you actually need to do is simple:
Identify the root cause of the issues in your relationship (hint: it probably has to do with past relationships + childhood wounds)
Create a structure and plan for practicing new ways of relating until they become a habit.
That’s where I work my magic
(actually, it’s not magic - it’s psychology + neuroscience + personal experience).
I want you to have the same success that my past clients have had.
They’re connected. They’re secure. They experience deep, authentic intimacy both with others and themselves. They’re better parents and confident partners.